iPXE currently advertises a fixed MSS of 1460, which is correct only
for IPv4 over Ethernet.  For IPv6 over Ethernet, the value should be
1440 (allowing for the larger IPv6 header).  For non-Ethernet link
layers, the value should reflect the MTU of the underlying network
device.

Use tcpip_mtu() to calculate the transport-layer MTU associated with
the peer address, and calculate the MSS to allow for an optionless TCP
header as per RFC 6691.

As a side benefit, we can now fail a connection immediately with a
meaningful error message if we have no route to the destination
address.

Reported-by: Anton D. Kachalov <mouse@yandex-team.ru>
Signed-off-by: Michael Brown <mcb30@ipxe.org>