Queue pairs are now assumed to be created in the INIT state, with a
call to ib_modify_qp() required to bring the queue pair to the RTS
state.

ib_modify_qp() no longer takes a modification list; callers should
modify the relevant queue pair parameters (e.g. qkey) directly and
then call ib_modify_qp() to synchronise the changes to the hardware.

The packet sequence number is now a property of the queue pair, rather
than of the device.

Each queue pair may have an associated address vector.  For RC queue
pairs, this is the address vector that will be programmed in to the
hardware as the remote address.  For UD queue pairs, it will be used
as the default address vector if none is supplied to ib_post_send().

Most IB hardware seems not to allow allocation of the genuine QPNs 0
and 1, so allow for the externally-visible QPN (as constructed and
parsed by ib_packet, where used) to differ from the real
hardware-allocated QPN.

Add FILE_LICENCE declarations to almost all files that make up the
various standard builds of gPXE.

This brings us in to line with Linux definitions, and also simplifies
adding x86_64 support since both platforms have 2-byte shorts, 4-byte
ints and 8-byte long longs.

This can be used with cards that require the driver to construct and
parse packet headers manually.  Headers are optionally handled
out-of-line from the packet payload, since some such cards will split
received headers into a separate ring buffer.