Infiniband devices no longer block waiting for link-up in
register_ibdev().

Hermon driver needs to create an event queue and poll for link-up events.

Infiniband core needs to reread MAD parameters when link state changes.

IPoIB needs to cope with Infiniband link parameters being only partially
available at probe and open time.

Signed-off-by: Alexey Zaytsev <alexey.zaytsev@gmail.com>

Arbel and Hermon cards both have multiple ports.  Add the
infrastructure required to register each port as a separate IB
device.  Don't yet register more than one port, since registration
will currently fail unless a valid link is detected.

Use ib_*_{set,get}_{drv,owner}data wrappers to access driver- and
owner-private data on Infiniband structures.

tracking down a bug that turned out to be a free_iob() used where I
needed a netdev_tx_complete().  This left the freed I/O buffer on the
net device's TX list, with bad, bad consequences later.

Also fixed the bug in question.